IN LOVING MEMORY OF

Glenda

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Pittman-Parks

Jan 4, 1953 — Nov 17, 2024

Obituary

Glenda Faye Pittman-Parks, 71, of Grand Rapids, MI, peacefully entered into eternal rest on Sunday, November 17, 2024. Born on January 4, 1953, in McComb, Mississippi, she was the beloved daughter of Mrs. Altee Pittman and the late Jerry Dean Pittman. Glenda was the second of four children in her family.

Glenda's faith journey began in McComb, Mississippi, where she confessed her belief in Christ at a young age and joined Rose Hill Free Will Baptist Church under the leadership of the late Reverend S. J. Dickey. He baptized her in the serene waters of Felder Camp Ground Creek in McComb. She immediately began using her gifts in the church choir, with her gospel voice and captivating audiences with her elongated poetic and prose speeches, especially during Easter programs.

Blessed with a quick wit, a sharp memory, and a vibrant sense of humor, Glenda had a remarkable talent for mimicry that naturally led her to act. From an early age, she performed in plays and musicals in churches, schools, and communities. Her love for storytelling and humor often emerged in elementary school, where she entertained classmates with her jokes and impressed audiences with her powerful vocals.

Glenda was a dedicated student who rarely missed a day of school. She attended West Brook Elementary and Higgins Hicks Junior High School in McComb, Mississippi, actively participating in school clubs and plays. Her academic dedication was matched only by her commitment to standing up for her beliefs. She was known for her unwavering principles and love for English Language Arts, reflecting her love of communication and expression. Above all, Glenda's greatest passion was showing love to others, a trait that defined her character and left a lasting impact on those who knew her.

In May of 1966, during Memorial Weekend, 13-year-old Glenda and her family moved to Grand Rapids, Michigan, hoping to pursue more significant opportunities. That fall, she enrolled at South Junior High School, where she met Patricia Dolly, who became one of her lifelong friends and many others she cherished throughout her life. Together, they shared countless precious memories and meaningful experiences.

Glenda's leadership and equity commitment were evident during high school. In 1967, she began attending Creston High School, where she quickly recognized the lack of inclusion for minority students in extracurricular activities. Refusing to accept the status quo, she rallied her friends. She led a walkout protest that ultimately opened doors for all students to participate in curricular and extracurricular opportunities at Creston. This bold advocacy was a testament to her determination and commitment to equity.

Glenda's love for the performing arts shone brightly during her senior year. She earned a dual role in the senior play Flowers for Algernon, and her charisma earned her the honor of serving as Mistress of Ceremonies for the Senior Class Night activities. These accomplishments highlighted her multifaceted talents and ability to inspire and lead those around her.

Glenda's faith journey continued with her attendance at Pilgrim Rest Baptist Church due to its convenient location near her home on Madison Avenue when she first arrived to the city. However, her spiritual path deepened when her late aunt, Ontee Davis, invited her to New Hope Baptist Church. Glenda joined and became an active and dedicated member until her marriage to Lyman Parks Jr.

During her time at New Hope, Glenda was a member of the Young Matrons group, guided by Ivory Williams, the pastor's wife, and contributed her beautiful voice as part of the church choir, often moving hearts with her soulful solos. Her natural talent for public speaking shone through as she delivered church announcements, and her passion for the performing arts found expression in holiday plays and other theatrical performances. Glenda's ministry through song, speech, and drama left an indelible mark, showcasing her commitment to serving and inspiring her church family.

Big Mama Irene Davis sparked Glenda's interest and love for cooking early in life as she assisted her grandmother in the kitchen. What began as Glenda's cherished pastime became a remarkable talent and a heartfelt ministry. Glenda became known as an exceptional cook, preparing special meals for family, friends, and church members. Her home, filled with the aroma of her delicious food and the sound of her contagious laughter, became a gathering place for people near and far, many of whom encouraged her to open a restaurant.

During the COVID-19 pandemic, Glenda's generosity and dedication to service shone brightly. With many restaurants closed, she took it upon herself to provide meals on Sundays for senior members of her church. In times of loss, she comforted grieving families by cooking meals from scratch, pouring her love and care into every dish. Glenda's "food ministry" was about nourishment, bringing people together, and offering comfort and kindness through her culinary gifts. Holidays at her home were always a celebration of flavors, with elaborate feasts prepared for friends and family to savor. The warmth of her kitchen mirrored the love she poured into every dish, making every meal a cherished memory.

Glenda's creative talents extended beyond the stage and the kitchen—she was also a skilled seamstress passionate about crafting beautiful garments. At a remarkably young age, she hand-tailored a stunning wedding dress for her older sister, Shirley Pittman, along with all the dresses for the bridal party, using only a pattern as her guide. Her sewing skills were a source of pride and joy, allowing her to create unique pieces for herself and others.

Her deep love and pride for her family were constants throughout her life. Glenda often spoke with admiration about her baby sister, Tayni, praising her beauty and incredible work ethic; her brother, Dexter, for his intellect, athleticism, and charm; and her big sister, Shirley, for her biblical knowledge and unwavering tenacity. She adored her mother, Atlee, for her wisdom and thoughtful guidance and her beloved Big Mama Irene, for her sage advice and nurturing spirit. For Glenda, the family was her foundation, and her immense pride in their achievements and qualities was pervasive and extraordinary. Her love for them was evident in her words, actions, and the joy she found in celebrating their lives.

In August 1971, Glenda first crossed paths with "Little Lyman," the musician, at her sister's wedding. Their initial encounter began with playful banter, as Glenda, the vocalist, often teased Lyman about adding more energy to his music. This lighthearted exchange eventually evolved into a creative partnership, blending their talents into a dynamic performance duo. Together, they entertained at numerous events throughout the Greater Grand Rapids community, leaving lasting impressions with their captivating collaboration.

Later that fall, Glenda left Grand Rapids to attend Michigan State University (MSU), earning a Bachelor of Science in Community Services from the College of Human Ecology. While at MSU, she continued to nurture her passion for the performing arts, actively participating in Black Performing Arts productions.

While at MSU, Glenda formed a meaningful friendship with her mentor, Mildred Mason, whose guidance and support greatly influenced her path. Glenda's bond with the Mason family deepened, and she became the proud godmother of Mildred's daughter, Juanita Mason. These relationships enriched Glenda's college years, shaping her into the dynamic and compassionate leader she would become.

Glenda devoted her life to using her talents and strength to uplift and enhance the lives of others. After earning her degree from Michigan State University, she began her career working with adult learners in the Right to Read program at Delta College in the Saginaw-Bay City area. In 1975, she achieved a Master of Science in Community Services from Michigan State University, marking the start of a journey that combined education, advocacy, and service. Her passion for empowering communities led her to become involved in politics, where she collaborated with community leaders and adult learners to support the election of political leaders who reflected and represented their constituents.

In 1979, Glenda returned to her hometown of Grand Rapids, Michigan, bringing her advocacy to new heights. She worked as a Counselor and Employment Specialist at Grand Rapids Community College while dedicating herself to serving the local community. Glenda continued her academic pursuits, earning a Master of Arts in College and University Administration (with an emphasis on Student Affairs Administration and Adult and Continuing Education) from Michigan State University in 1988. She became a Licensed Master of Social Work (LMSW) after completing her studies at Western Michigan University in June of 1994. She also achieved certification as a substance abuse counselor. Glenda's diverse qualifications enabled her to build a fulfilling career as a school administrator and licensed clinical social worker, seamlessly integrating her passion with her profession.

Politically active, Glenda represented Jesse Jackson as a young delegate at the Democratic National Convention. In 1984, she was elected as a delegate and served on the National Rules Committee at the San Francisco, CA convention. She became a member of the Theta Chi Omega Chapter of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc., in May 1979.

A lover of the performing arts, Glenda showcased her talent in numerous productions with the Robeson Players, Circle Theatre, Civic Theatre, and Michigan's Community Theatre. Her passion for storytelling extended to volunteering in Grand Rapids Public Schools, where she led special Black History Month programs. She also produced radio voiceovers for several years, skillfully using her voice to amplify messages and inspire others. Glenda's life was a testament to her commitment to education, the arts, and community service—a legacy of leadership, creativity, and compassion. In 2002 she was honored with the Giants Ethel Cole Humanities Award.

Glenda and Lyman's musical journey blossomed into a beautiful love story. Glenda, the gifted vocalist, found her soulmate in Lyman, her talented friend, musician, and the love of her life. In June 1994, she became Mrs. Glenda Faye Pittman-Parks, beginning a lifelong partnership she often described as a blessing. Glenda proudly shared that Lyman was the world's best husband, father, and friend.

Following their marriage, Glenda became a devoted member of First Community AME Church, where she served in various capacities. She was a member of the Steward Board, Chaplain of the Pettiford Missionary Society, and an active member of both the First Choir and the Women's Choir, which she also led as President. Additionally, she served as President of the Women's Missionary Society and directed the Cherub Choir. Glenda's dedication extended to assisting with Sunday school programs and supporting weddings and funerals within the community. Glenda was a gifted singer with a talent for lifting spirits and soothing souls through her music. She especially enjoyed organizing musical programs for seniors at Allen Manor Senior Housing, bringing joy to their lives whenever called upon. Glenda's passion for music and service left a lasting impact on everyone she touched.

In the fall of 1995, Glenda and her husband, Lyman, relocated to Jackson, Mississippi, where they became active Pearl Street AME Church members. Glenda joined the choir, singing under the direction of the late Dr. Jimmy James, continuing to share her gift of music with the congregation. During their time in Mississippi, Glenda and Lyman received the blessing of a lifetime, the miracle of the birth of their beautiful, brown-eyed daughter, Lindsey Starling Parks. Lindsey quickly became Glenda's pride and joy, completing the loving family she had always dreamed of. Glenda cherished every moment of motherhood and celebrated Lindsey's big and small achievements with boundless pride and joy. Her love for Lindsey was unconditional and unwavering, and she made it abundantly clear that her daughter had never once disappointed her parents. Glenda's immense love and devotion to Lindsey were a testament to her nurturing spirit and the joy she found in her family.

Glenda was a passionate advocate for her community, dedicating herself to numerous causes and initiatives. She worked tirelessly on school millage campaigns and served on the executive committee of the Kent County Democratic Party. Her commitment to civic engagement extended to her role as a board member of the Robeson Players, Bethany Christian Services Corporate Board, and the Baxter Community Neighborhood Association Board. A proud member of Alpha Kappa Alpha Sorority, Inc., Glenda also served on the Girl Scouts of America board and was part of the inaugural committee organized to select recipients of the prestigious Giant Awards. Her involvement in education was equally impactful; she volunteered in Grand Rapids Public Schools, leading special programs during Black History Month and other significant events.

Glenda's creative talents matched her dedication to service. For several years, she produced radio voiceovers for significant corporations, focusing on messaging that resonated with the minority community. Her work reflected a deep commitment to uplifting others and amplifying voices in her community.

Glenda found great fulfillment in her work as a licensed clinical social worker. She began her career working with children and their families at Family Impact, later serving at the Psychiatric Hospital in Kalamazoo, MI. She concluded her career in Grand Rapids, MI at the Grand Rapids Home for Veterans. Working with veterans was a role she cherished deeply, supporting the men and women who served this country. Glenda was a dedicated advocate for her clients, a passionate leader, and truly loved her life's work.

In July 2024, Glenda's heart overflowed with joy as she became an Ama (Grandmother in Creole) to a beautiful, healthy baby boy, Samuel. Glenda adored Samuel deeply and cherished every moment as she eagerly anticipated watching him grow and develop his special bond with her. She looked forward to creating lasting memories and sharing her love, wisdom, and warmth with Samuel as he grew to know and love her for himself.

On November 17, 2024, after a courageous battle with pancreatic cancer, Glenda peacefully passed away and entered her eternal rest. She was deeply loved and will be profoundly missed by all whose lives she touched.

She was preceded in death by her maternal grandparents, Howard and Irene Davis; maternal uncles Carl Davis, Sylvester (Red) Davis (Cora Davis), Robert Earl Davis, Booker T. Davis (Judy), Ruschell Davis (Ontee); maternal aunt, Mildred Butler (Willie); maternal cousins: Bobby-Jean Davis, Patricia Ann Davis, Larry Butler Sr. (Dorthy Jo Butler), Andre Davis, Vester (Peter) Davis, Marlon Davis, and Robert Earl Davis Jr.; paternal grandparents, George and Lilly Pittman (Grandma Dutch), and paternal aunts Lizzie H. Bridges, Mamie Harris, Etta Mae LeJean, Nora Harris and paternal uncle Paul Pittman.

Survivors to cherish her beautiful memories are her loving husband of 30 years, Lyman S. Parks Jr. of Grand Rapids, Michigan and daughter, Lindsey Starling Parks-Freeman (Sam Freeman) of Columbus, Ohio; Grandson Samuel Lyman Freeman of Columbus, Ohio; mother: Altee Pittman of Grand Rapids, Michigan; two sisters: Shirley Pittman and Tayni Chandler (Tyrone Chandler) and brother; Dexter Davis all of Grand Rapids, Michigan; a plethora of cousins including special cousins Pamela Joy Wallace and Sheryl Raynell Davis, all of Grand Rapids, Michigan; nieces, nephews; friends; and 3 God children, Juanita Mason of Pontiac, Michigan, Patrick Dolly, of Kalamazoo, Michigan and Essence Jackson-Jones of Dallas Texas, all of whom love her dearly.

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